Welcome to my personal homepage (and shrine to narcissism).
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Details: Age: |
Mine: 40+ |
His: 30-70 |
This page, like me, is a work in progress. I decided to use my cyber-dating profile as the unifying theme. After a dramatic break from my past relationships 4 years ago, I spent the intervening time learning about myself outside of relationships. Not to sound too "new age" but I like myself. Now I want to see if I can stay a person I'd like while in a relationship. I have no idea how to do that or what comes next, consequently I've become
mystery_gal [my very apt match.com pseudonym]
Reincarnated recently and loving it this time around! ;-)
40+ female, located in mostly in Little Rock AR, but frequently in Palo Alto CA,
Dallas TX, and Harrisburg PA, seeking 30 to 70 year-old male for short term or long term
relationship.
I'm a new woman (chronologic age notwithstanding). In my old life I spent too much time working and fussing. The workaholism is now in remission but it resulted in a secure career that leaves lots of free time. The fussing resulted in failed marriages and three wonderful kids (going about their lives elsewhere). The last 4 years of soul searching (Care of the Soul was one of my guides) have prepared me for whatever comes next. All I can say about my future is that it won't be like my past. In all other ways I'm wide open to whatever the cosmos has to offer. . . . Specifics . . . ME: I'm footloose and travel a lot. I love nature walks, films (from action to romance), music (jazz, classical, rock, etc.), NPR/PBS, reading (sci-fi, mystery, non-fiction, science and poetry). I'm like a very eclectic museum full of odd bits of this and that. I can knock your socks off in an evening gown and could hit you with a spiral if you ran a down-and-out . . . . YOU: Tall. Over the hump as far as proving yourself. Your friends love you but you don't quite fit with any group. You live by your own standards. You embrace diversity and tolerate chaos well (probably learned while raising your own kids). You'd love a partner but would maintain your independence and honor hers . . . . US: Getting started. Holding hands. Kissing gently. Sharing easily. . . . Then . . . who knows? . . . . . . Maybe you can help me break out of this chronic earnestness!